10 Tips to Simplify Your Life

Over the last decade or so life has consistently been enriched because of more and more facilities, on-going gadgets inventions and day by day increment in luxuries. This is quite exciting however during the same period of time, people have increased their love for materialistic things abruptly which has directly or indirectly reduced their overall happiness index. Now a days, we have more luxuries but less delights and high stress levels. We have more sugar, blood and heart patients then it used to be a decade back. The reason for all the stress and anxiety is simple that we are not living a simple life.

Below are some tips which can simplify your life and may amplify the happiness scale of your life.

1-    Avoid getting influenced: You don't have to follow every single trend in society. If your friend has purchased a new BMW, you don't need to buy a Mercedes to impress. Live for yourself not for others. If you purchase a high-end luxury car today, your love for this will end soon and you will be selling it at considerable financial loss though I am not forbidding to purchase luxury things once in a considerable duration of time. 
2-   Avoid impulse buying: You don't need to buy every single gadget instantly which you like in this shop. Do your Needs Vs Wants analysis. Buy only if it is really increasing your peace of mind. Remember that now a days the standard life of every gadget (phone, tablet, laptop, jewelry etc) is more or less 6 months because of new and new products release by several companies. 
  3-   The 6 months Rule: Generally speaking, anything which has not been used in last 6 months will not be used in next 6 months most likely. Give such things (shoes, garments, toys, mobiles, house hold items) in charity. This will help spreading happiness in society and reducing your space at home. 

  4-   Avoid Credit Cards Usage: Avoid this as much as you can. Debt is a silent stress and eating up your mental health slowly. Your brain might get old while you are young at heart. You might develop high BP or sugar because of stress due to credit. Live a credit-free life. 
  5-   Learn to say No: Don't accept every single attractive offer from the bank representative or a car loan company. Do your "Needs Vs Wants" analysis. Careful spending is always recommended.
  
6-   Reduce too much social gatherings: Stay at home. Spend quality time with your spouse and kids for empowered relationships. You don't have to say yes every time to your friend who is coming to pick you from home to join another late night social get together. 
  
7-   Reduce your love for money: Careful spending and saving is important but don't allow your brain to keep doing the calculations all day long. You love for money is pulling your brain strings and damaging your peace of mind silently. Stay away from too much thoughts about your financials.
  
8-   Less TV more Books: It is proven that people who watch more movies generate high level of stress. Read quality books to learn wisdom and attain high degree of happiness.
  
9-   Spend time with Nature: Instead of going to cinemas and malls repeatedly, spend time in parks. This will relax your brain, body and soul.
  
10- Change your eating habits: why eating lavish foods by visiting costly restaurants again and again in a week. The purpose of food is to fill your belly for some hours. So the suggestion here is to go for simpler and healthier food. Remember, most of the food items in the market are fried which are increasing your cholesterol level silently hence making you a heart patient in the long run!

Work on your real wealth and live a happy life !!!

The Manager And The Worker

One day a construction supervisor from 6th floor of building was calling a worker 
working on the ground floor. Because of construction noise, the worker on ground floor did not hear his supervisor calling.

Then, to draw the attention of worker, the supervisor threw a 10 rupee note from up which fell right around in front of the worker.

The worker picked up the 10 rupee note, put it in his pocket & continued with his work.

Again to draw the attention of worker, the supervisor now threw 500 rupee note & the worker did the same, picked 500 rupee note, put it in his pocket & started doing his job.

Now to draw attention of the worker, the supervisor picked a small stone & threw on worker. The stone hit exactly the worker head. This time the worker looked up & the supervisor communicated with the worker.

This story is same as of our life. Lord from up wants to communicate with us, but we are busy doing our worldly jobs. Then God gives us small gifts & we just keep it without seeing from where we got it.

Then God gives us amounts (gifts) & we are the same. Just keep the gifts without seeing from where it came & without thanking God. We just say we are LUCKY.

Then when we are hit with a small stone, which we call problems, then we look up & we communicate with God.

So every time we get gifts, we should thank God immediately, and not wait till we are hit by a small stone, and then communicate with God.

$60 billion Company that Started with a Tweet

Here's a tweet Travis Kalanick sent in January 2010. The reply from Ryan Graves happened 3 minutes later. That tweet was worth over a billion dollars.

January 2010 was the month Travis was doing a test run with 3 cars in New York for a mobile app that he and his friend, Garrett Camp, had just created.

They had decided it was time to start a company around the app and, needing to find a General Manager to run it, Travis took to Craigslist and Twitter looking for the right person.

Ryan's reply to Travis came as he was looking for something new. He had some experience at GE, and had worked for Foursquare for a while for free after the company turned him down for a job. He was ready for a new opportunity - and took a chance with this tweet.

Travis replied back, they met, they hit it off, and Ryan joined Travis and Garrett on March 1st as their first hire.

With their new company started, the three of them then invited all their friends to demo the product and they officially launched in San Francisco just 3 months later on May 31st.

That was five years ago.

This week, the team that started with that tweet has built their company, Uber, into a company that is currently valued at over $60 billion (they just announced another funding round of $2 billion this week http://bit.ly/ubers-next-2-billion).

Today, Travis and Ryan are worth over $6 billion, and that tweet from Ryan (who today is Uber's Head of Global Operations) began a journey which has made him a billionaire today as well.

How are you using Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn and Youtube today?

As a wall of content? As a broadcasting tool?

Or, like Travis and Ryan, as a way to find the resources, connections and opportunities you need when you need them?

Depending on how you use it, social media can make you feel apart from everyone, or one step to anyone.

It can overwhelm you, or empower you.

It can be a time waster, or a time saver.

"Never confuse motion with action."
~ Benjamin Franklin

What do you need or who can you help today? It may just be a tweet away.

Of course, there is no promise that one connection or one tweet will result in you making a billion dollars or impacting a billion lives.

But there is no promise it won't either.

BREAKING: Thousands of Nigerian Youths protest over Not Too Young To Run bill

- Nigerian youths are protesting over the #NotTooYoungToRun Bill 
- The youths are marching from the Unity Fountain to the National Assembly

Thousands of Nigerian youths today, Tuesday, July 25 took to major streets in the Federal Capital Territory, Abuja to protest over the Not Too Young to Run bill. 

The youths are drawn from major youth groups in the country. The protest kicked off from the popular Unity Fountain and will end at the National Assembly.

NAIJ.COM sighted popular activists Hamzat Lawal of CODE, Cynthia Mbamalu of YIAGA,Dr Otive Ibuzor, Aisha Yeseufu among many others. 

source: naij.com

40-year-old man beats wife to death over alleged infidelity in Ogun state

In Agbado area of Ogun state, a 40-year-old man was reported to have allegedly beaten his 37-year-old wife to death after accusing her of having an affair with their neighbour. The man who was identified as Femi Adebowale has been arrested by the Ogun state police command for killing his wife, Kuburat on Monday, July 17. The Police Public Relations Officer (PPRO) of the state, Abimbola Oyeyemi disclosed that on the day of the unfortunate incident the deceased asked her husband for the money she intends to use for her younger brother’s naming ceremony and he gave her N10000

The deceased immediately complained that the money was not enough which led to their fight and sudden death of the Kuburat. Speaking on the death if the woman is her younger brother, Shakiru Alao, who revealed that his late sister’s husband had beaten her over alleged infidelity with their neighbour. Alao said: “In the suspect’s statement, he alleged that the deceased had been involving in act of infidelity for quite some time to the extent that she was dating their next door neighbour.” 

However, the Ogun state Commissioner of Police Ahmed Iliyasu ordered that the case should be transferred to the homicide section of the state criminal investigation and intelligence department for further investigation.

JUST IN: Aisha currently in London with President Buhari

- Aisha, the wife of President Muhammadu Buhari, is allegedly with husband in London 

- The had been claims that Aisha had been blocked from gaining access to her husband 

- But Presidential source dismissed insinuations that the president is suffering from memory loss Despite media reports that the First Lady, Aisha Buhari, no longer has access to her husband, President Muhammadu Buhari, as a result of the perceived secrecy surrounding the president’s ill-health, the First Lady is currently with the president in Abuja House, London, Daily Sun has reported. 

NAIJ.com had previously reported that President Buhari left Nigeria for London on Sunday, May 7, 2017, to attend to health challenges, having earlier made a similar trip to London and upon arrival in Nigeria, stated that he was going to return to London at a later date. NAIJ.com also gathered that the Special Adviser to the President on Media and Publicity, Mr. Femi Adesina, had before the President’s departure for London in May, stated on his twitter handle that the president was going on a medical follow-up, saying that the length of the president’s stay away was to be determined by his London doctors. 
According to Daily Sun, a very competent presidency source said that Aisha is currently with President Buhari in Abuja House, London. The source said: “Aisha visited the President two weeks ago and is currently with the President.” The source also dismissed insinuations that the President is suffering from memory loss, saying the President is responding to treatment. While stating that no specific date has been slated for the President’s return, the source said the President’s return “would strictly be on the orders of his doctors.” The source added: “Keeping the arrival date of the President secret is because of noise and exposure.” Probed further about the veracity that the First Lady no longer has access to the President, the source said: “It is not possible for a wife not to see her husband. The information is bandied around by people trying to tarnish the image of the First Lady.”  While saying that the First Lady was sad to see people wishing her husband dead, the source however said the First Lady was living up to her challenges and doing her best. “Anybody can be sick. But it is very unfortunate to see people wishing your husband dead,” the source concluded. Meanwhile, NAIJ.com had previously reported that an online newspaper, Sahara Reporters, reported that the cabal in the presidency has concluded plans to bring back President Muhammadu Buhari to Nigeria on July 27. 

IT PAYS TO BE GOOD

Once upon a time Shree Krishna and Arjun went for a short stroll around the city. They saw a poor looking priest begging. Arjun felt pity at him and he gave him a bag full of 100 gold coins. The priest became very happy and thanked Arjun. He left for his home. On way, he saw another person who needed help. The priest could have spared a coin or two to help that person. however, he chose to ignore it. But on way to his home, one thief robbed him of his bag of coins and ran away.

The priest became dejected and went back again for begging. Next day again when Arjun saw the same priest begging and he was surprised that after getting a bag full of coins which can last a lifetime, the priest was still begging! He called the priest and asked him the reason for this. The priest told him about the whole incident and Arjun again felt pity at him. So, this time he gave him a diamond.

The priest became very happy and left for home and he again saw someone who needed help but he chose to ignore again. Upon reaching home, he safely put the diamond in an empty pot of water with a plan to cash it out later and live a wealthy life. His wife was not at home. He was very tired so he decided to take a nap. In between, his wife came home and picked up that empty pot of water, walked towards the river close by to fill up the water. She had not noticed the diamond in the pot. Upon arriving at the river, she put the whole pot into the running river water to fill it up. She filled up the pot but the diamond was gone with the water flow!

When the priest woke up, he went to see the pot and asked his wife about the diamond. She told him, she had not noticed it and it must have been lost in the river. The priest couldn’t believe his bad luck and again started begging. Again Arjun and Shree Krishna saw him begging and Arjun inquired about it. Arjun felt bad and started thinking if this priest will ever have a happy life.

Shree Krishna who is an incarnation of God smiled. Shree Krishna gave that priest one coin which was not even enough for buying a lunch or dinner for one person. Arjun asked Shree Krishna, “Lord, I gave him gold coins and diamond, which could have given him a wealthy life, yet it didn’t help him. How will just one coin help this poor guy?” Shree Krishna smiled and told Arjun to follow that priest and find out.

On the way, the priest was thinking that one coin Shree Krishna gave him, he can’t even buy a lunch for one person. Why would he give so little? He saw a fisherman who was getting a fish out of his net. Fish was struggling. The priest felt pity at fish. He thought that this one coin won’t solve my problem, why not I save that fish. So the priest paid the fisherman and took the fish. He put the fish in his small pot of water which he always carried with him.

The fish was struggling in a small pot of water, ended up throwing out a diamond from the mouth! The priest screamed with a joy, “I got it, I got it”. At that same point, the thief who had robbed the priest’s bag of 100 gold coins, was passing through there. He thought that the priest recognized him and may get him punished. He got nervous and ran to the priest. He apologized to the priest and returned his bag full of 100 gold coins. The priest couldn’t believe what just happened.

Arjun saw all this and said, “Oh Lord, Now I understand your play”.

Moral: When you have enough to help others, don’t let that chance go. Your good deeds will always be repaid to you.

KEEPING THE ROOTS STRONGER

Once upon a time, there were two neighbors living next to each other. One of them was a retired teacher and another was an insurance agent who had a lot of interest in technology. Both of them had planted different plants in their garden. The retired teacher was giving a small amount of water to his plants and didn’t always give a full attention to them, while the other neighbor interested in technology, had given a lot of water to his plants and looked after them too well.

The retired teacher’s plants were simple but looked good. The insurance agent’s plants were much fuller and greener. One day, during the night, there was a heavy rain and a wind due to a minor storm. Next morning, both of the neighbors came out to inspect the damage to their garden. The neighbor who was an insurance agent saw that his plants came off from the roots and were totally destroyed. But, the retired teacher’s plants were not damaged at all and were standing firm.

The insurance agent neighbor was surprised to see it, he went to the retired teacher and asked, “We both grew the same plants together, I actually looked after my plants better than you did for yours, and even gave them more water. Still, my plants came off from the roots, while yours didn’t. How is that possible?”

The retired teacher smiled and said, “You gave your plants more attention and water, but because of that they didn’t need to work themselves for it.  You made it easy for them.  While I gave them just an adequate amount of water and let their roots search for more.   And, because of that, their roots went deeper and that made their position stronger.  That is why my plants survived”.

Moral:  This story is about parenting where children are like plants.  If everything is given to them, they will not understand the hard work it takes to earn those things.  They will not learn to work themselves and respect it.  Sometimes it’s best to guide them instead of giving them.   Teach them how to walk, but let them follow their path.

A SMART WIFE IS WORTH MORE THAN GOLD

This morning, she and her husband had a really bad argument. He came home after work still mad at her, why is she is so difficult to be with sometimes?
He walked in the house, ready for another fight....
He walked in and found her cooking his favourte meal: chapati with beef stew. Worship music was playing in the house...
"Hi honey" she greeted him...
"Hi" he said back...
He leaned on the kitchen wall expecting the argument to continue, she is a woman who speaks her mind...
But instead, she sang along to the worship song playing as she cooked...
"You had a good day?" She asked as she added oil in the pan...
"Why do you do this?" He asked...
"Do what?" She asked smiling...
He stared at her saying, "You make it so hard to stay mad at you"...
"It's not me, it's God" she answered...
"That explains the worship music. You surround the house with worship" he said...
She fed him a portion of the cooked chapati. He chewed...
"I learned the power of worship. Worship humbles both of us, it calms our spirit. I cannot stay mad at my husband when the presence of God fills our home. I cannot continue fights when God's peace lives in our home"...
She went back to the pan to cook some more "When you come home. You shouldn't come home to a wife whose face and tone is ready for war. You should come home to my face glowing because of God's glory. Worship keeps me in check"...
He moved to her, held her by the waist and kissed her neck then said, "Worship reminds me that I am loving God's daughter. Worship cuts off my ego because there can be no worship without humility and submission"...
She turned off the cooking heat and turned to face him, she giggled, "Look at us, just this morning we were shouting and mad, now you're holding me so close" she told him and kissed his lips...
"That's what happens when my wife is my fellow worshiper" he kissed her lips...
"A man who has submitted himself to God is so easy to love" she told him...
"You asked how my day was. I didn't have such a good day after that fight with you earlier today. But the day will end well with you"...
He knelt down beside her...
"What are you doing Honey? Asking me to be your wife, again?" She wondered...
He smiled and answered, "Every day I choose you to be my wife. I am kneeling down because I want to worship God, please join me"...
She knelt down next to him, his hand holding her, she said "Every day, I say yes to being your wife. Let's worship"...
"Sorry for shouting at you" she told him...
"Sorry for being difficult sometimes" he told her...
Him and the wife worshiped.
No marriage that is led by and anchored in God will fall, is your home/relationship full of the presence of God?
Think about it..

LET'S TALK VIRGINITY

A virgin is a person who has never had any form of sexual intercourse before being it *penovaginal, anal or oral SEX* ....period!

Couple of years back, in order to encourage people who have had sex before to abstain, the term *secondary virginity* was introduced.

*Hymen*: _is a thin membrane that partly covers the vagina. There are different types of hymen and some can even cover the vagina entirely (imperforated)._

Unfortunately, a lot of people use the presence or absence of the hymen to determine a female's virginity. That can be very deceptive because there are so many ladies out there without their hymen but have never had sex before. Sadly, they are expected to bleed on their first sexual intercourse and if it doesn't happen, then it means they told a lie. This controversy has gone on for decades and still going on. A lot of boyfriends and husbands have all lost trust for their partners due to this issue of virginity.

_Is there anything which determines that a man has never had sex before?_

There is nothing except what the man says...his word! _Isn't the word of a female also enough if she says she is a virgin?_

There are certain activities that can cause a person to break the hymen. Some of the activities include:

1. Dripping hot or warm water into the vagina of a baby when bathing for the baby. Some mothers or caretakers do this in the name of dressing sores inside the vagina or cleaning the vagina... *what a shock!*

2. Some parents or caretakers also punish children by grinding ginger with pepper and inserting it into the vagina as a form of punishment.

3. Riding bicycle, motorcycle, horse riding etc are some of the activities that can cause the hymen to break.

4. Some people also got their hymen broken due to medication. Some medicines are inserted into the vagina which can also cause the hymen to break or wear off.

In other cases, some also gets their hymen broken because a paedophile inserted his penis or finger into the child's vagina (defilement). Innocent and naive, she may not know or understand what happened. She may not tell or could not even talk well or at all, depending on the age or maturity of the baby or child. She grows up and can't recall herself having sex with anybody. She thinks herself as a virgin. _Is she wrong to say she is? Do you blame her for saying so?_

Some people also break their hymen in the game, '' *maame ne paapa*'' (a game by children role playing parents) by using the penis or the finger.

_Is it still worth using the presence or absence of a females hymen to judge her?_

In any case, what really matters in a relationship? Is it the hymen of a person or her attitude and behaviour that matter?

Its possible to find somebody whose hymen is broken or have had sex before but his or her heart is pure and with good character. It is also possible to find somebody whose hymen is intact or have not had penovaginal sex before but the character of that person is terrible.

There are some people with their hymen intact but have had sex before.

1. Some people have thick hymen such that they can have sex several times but the hymen will still be there. In some situations, such hymen is surgically removed.

2. Some people intentionally have anal sex in order to preserve their hymen for men who place high value on the presence of hymen.

3. Others also engage in oral sex all in the name of keeping their hymen intact.

Unfortunately for them and their knowledge, these are all forms of sexual intercourse. All of them can also lead to *Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs)*

It's about time we take a second look at the issue of virginity otherwise we will continue to treat people unfairly, push people into doing certain things to preserve they hymen, make people feel bad for something which happened to them through no fault of theirs.

_Even if people have had sex before, don't they deserve a better relationship or marriage?_ Most of the great women and celebrated women and men in the world including great men and women of God, did not marry as a virgin.

The present character or behaviour of the person is what counts and not presence or the absence of hymen.

FOR PURPOSE OF CLARITY AND FEAR OF BEING MISUNDERSTOOD...

Virginity is a standard for everyone ( both male and female) but for the purpose of this writeup, without any form of bias, no woman should be judged by the presence or absence of the hymen. The character remains supreme.

Thank you!

Celebration Of Excellence

This girl here is Chinaecherem Cynthia Ali. And of course, she is Igbo. From Igbo-Eze north L.G.A of Enugu state.

But that is not the gist.

The real gist here is that Miss Chinaecherem just made A1 in all her 9 subjects in SSCE (WAEC).
She is the overall best students for 2016/2017 academic session in her school.

Before this, she had represented her schools in various inter secondary school competitions and had won several awards including an award from Mathematical Society of Nigeria.

In a world peopled by men with even the tiniest regard for Excellence, this brainy Queen here would already be on her way to one of the best universities on GOVT Scholarship.

Sadly, and to our collective shame as a people, ours is a broken society presided over by broken men who would rather squander millions and billions plus car gifts on some half naked daughters of Eve on some beautiful nonsense called Beauty Pageant and other frivolities only to turn around and 'gift' outstanding students like this with mere Calculator and Mathematical Sets.

Our sense of priority here is nothing short of a walking tragedy!

Shame!

The govt of Enugu state owe it to both man and God to see to it that exceptionally brilliant students such as this girl here, are made to see the inside of a university on Govt Scholarship.

The biggest asset any nation could boast of IS NOT her natural resources.

It is her human resources.

It will gladden me beyond word if it is said that I lived at a time when excellence and hardwork are duly recognised and rewarded.

Congratulations, dear Chinaecherem.

Dear governor Ifeanyi Ugwuanyi and dozens of Igbo leaders from Enugu state, please, convince me and millions of others that hardwork and excellence still pay!

My Goodwill Message goes to My Enugu Brethren.... I congratulate You All.

She worth to be a #Slayqueen is not by Brazilian Hair with Empty brain.

DON'T BE QUICK TO JUDGE

A couple had been married for several years without a child. For the purpose of companionship, they bought a Rottweiler puppy, named it Hatchi and loved her like a child. 

The dog had access to all the rooms in the house. The puppy grew to become a large, beautiful dog and had on several occasions saved d couples from robbery. Hatchi was always faithful, loyal and defended its owners against any danger.

Seven years later, the couple was blessed to have the long awaited son. They were very happy with their new son and decreased the attention they had been giving the dog. Hatchi felt neglected and began to get jealous of the baby.

One day the couple left the baby sleeping peacefully in his cradle and went to the terrace to prepare a roast. They were shocked as they were heading to the nursery and saw Hatchi in the hallway with a bloody mouth, wagging its tail. 

The dog's owner thought the worst, pulled out a weapon and immediately killed the dog. Rushed to the baby's room and found a beheaded snake close to the baby. The owner begins to mourn and exclaims I killed my faithful dog! 

How often have we misjudged people without finding out facts. 

The next time we are tempted to judge and condemn anyone remember the

 story of a faithful dog Hatchi.

THE SEX AT HOME

"Send me a photo of your nipples" the other man sent her a message on WhatsApp.
She walked to the bathroom. Locked the door then strapped down her night dress. Took a photo of her breasts then sent to the other man.
"Tomorrow you will get to touch these" she texted the other man.
She got out of the bathroom smiling then got inside the bed where her husband was.
Tomorrow she will be going to finally meet the man she's been flirting with. This man has promised her great sex, sex out of this world. She complained to the other man about how her husband is weak in sex, a one minute man. This other man promised to sex her real good.
She was excited. She really wants sex. Good sex.
This other man sent her a picture of his penis.
She held her phone close, saw the penis picture.
"Who is that?" Asked her husband.
"It's Karo. She is confirming that we are going for a kesha at her church tomorrow night" she told her husband.
It was a lie. She is not going for a kesha with Karo tomorrow, she is going to meet up with the other man in a hotel to have mind blowing sex that no one has to know.
"Let me text her to tell her I will meet her at six in the evening" she lied to her husband.
"Say hello to her" her innocent husband said.
"OK" she said.
"That is the biggest penis I have ever seen. I can't wait for it to slide and cum inside me. You are making me hot. Keep him warm for me" she texted the other man.
She placed her fingers between her legs. She had shaved. Ready for tomorrow's sex.
Her husband started touching her, leaning towards her to kiss her and make love to her, his wife.
She pulled away. Denied her husband her body.
"I am not in the mood" she said.
"I love you" her husband said and turned the other way and slept.
She felt a sting in her heart.
What is she doing?
She has turned into a liar.
Her marriage is falling apart by her lusting after another man. How is she to work on her marriage if she is focusing on the penis of another man?
She stared at the wall. She couldn't sleep.
So tomorrow after she has mind blowing sex, what next? This man wants to sex her even if it means cheating on her husband. He just wants sex, nothing more. How many other women is he sexing and sending pictures of his penis to? If she gets pregnant, he will not want to be a father.
This other man doesn't even care about her dreams, her fears, her children, her future, her relationship with God. All he wants is her vagina, butt and nipples. He doesn't bother knowing her heart.
Her husband on the other hand is the sweetest man in the world. He married her. Is a great father. He is loving. He supports her. Strives to make her happy. Thoughtful. Good looking. His sex may not last long but he makes her feel loved. She has a good husband.
She cried. Asked God for forgiveness.
She picked up her phone. Deleted the penis picture on her phone.
"I can't do this any more. What we have been doing is wrong. I love my husband. I will not cheat on him. Do not contact me any more. I want nothing to do with you" she texted the other man and blocked his number so that he can't call or text her.
She switched her phone off.
Removed her night dress.
Took her fingers to her husband's nipples and started rubbing them.
Her husband woke up.
She took her fingers down his penis.
Removed his penis from his boxer shorts.
He started getting hard.
"I want you" she whispered to his ear.
He got really hard as she stroke his penis.
She sat on him and made love to him.
When she sensed he was about to orgasm, she stood up and showed to him her breasts.
She then gently came down on her bed, laid on her back.
"Make love to me" she requested.
He got up and went on top of her.
They made sweet love.
She made him relax and he lasted longer. She helped him hold his hardness for longer.
Sweet orgasm, they both had.
That was the sweetest pleasure they have ever had as husband and wife.
She has never felt that good before. They had learned each other's body better than before.
"I love you" she told her husband.
"I love you too" said her husband.
"I really love you. Thankyou for being such an amazing husband" she added.
"You are in a good mood" her husband said smiling.
"I am a blessed wife, that's why. I have decided to stay at home tomorrow night. I will stay at home and pray with you and our marriage. Let's have a kesha as husband and wife" she said.
"I love the sound of that my love" her husband said.
They kissed and slept peaceful and happy.
The greatest sex is not outside your marriage, it is at home, with your spouse. The kind of sex that comes with love, joy, peace, fulfilment and no regrets

MAJID MICHAEL'S TAKE ON CHRISTIANITY

Christianity? Why? that's a White man's religion. i want no part of it! Christianity was given to the Black man to keep him in slavery! The Bible has been changed and added to by the White man in order to brain-wash the Black man. These are statements that are being made in practically every Black community in America and lots of places in Africa especially with the traditionalists

. The struggle for social equality have become such hot issues that many Blacks can see life only in terms of Black and White. Many Blacks in their bitterness are denouncing Christianity and the Bible. let's face the issue head on. This same Bible records these words of God: May all the ends of the earth look to ME and be saved, for I am God and there is no other. Notice that God does not say, look to anyone else but look to HiM. The Bible teaches us that God has seen fit to manifest himself through his son, Jesus Christ. So then, it is Jesus to whom we are to look, not any person, Black or White. This word LOOK means to draw all our attention TO. it means that we should surrender even our very lives to God through his son, Jesus Christ. If God demands that we look to his son, Jesus Christ, it means that Christianity is not a RELiGiON, but a PERSON!... It is JESUS!... God's word, the Holy Bible, is telling to look to JESUS and NO OTHER. Therefore, those who are attacking Christianity as a White man's religion are all wrong!

 The Holy Bible teaches that Jesus Christ is the only hope, or the only salvation, for any group of people. The Bible declares, There is salvation in none other, for there is none other name under heaven given among men whereby we can be saved. The Bible teaches us that Jesus died for the sins of the whole world. This passage does not make any mention of Black people or White people. Many Blacks are falling into the same error they are denouncing by creating religions custom made for Black people only. This is not what the Bible, God's word, says. The Bible teaches that every man, regardless of race, is born a sinner and will be destroyed in his sins unless he receives Jesus Christ into his heart. 

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MAJID MICHAEL

CHANGING OUR VISION

There was a very wealthy man who was bothered by severe eye pain. He consulted many physicians and was being treated by several. He did not stop consulting a galaxy of medical experts; he consumed heavy loads of drugs and underwent hundreds of injections. But the ache persisted with more vigour than before.

At last, a monk who was supposed to be an expert in treating such patients was called for by the suffering man. The monk understood his problem and said that for sometime he should concentrate only on green colours and not to let his eyes fall on any other colours. It was a strange prescription, but he was desperate and decided to try it.

The millionaire got together a group of painters and purchased barrels of green paint and directed that every object his eye was likely to fall to be painted green just as the monk had directed. When the monk came to visit him after few days, the millionaire's servants ran with buckets of green paint and poured it on him since he was in red dress, lest their master see any other colour and his eye ache would come back.

Hearing this, the monk laughed and said "If only you had purchased a pair of green spectacles, worth just a few dollars, you could have saved these walls and trees and pots and all other articles and also could have saved a large share of his fortune. You cannot paint the world green."

Let us change our vision and the world will appear accordingly. It is foolish to shape the world, let us shape ourselves first.

Potatoes, Eggs, and Coffee Beans

Once upon a time a daughter complained to her father that her life was miserable and that she didn’t know how she was going to make it. She was tired of fighting and struggling all the time. It seemed just as one problem was solved, another one soon followed.

Her father, a chef, took her to the kitchen. He filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Once the three pots began to boil, he placed potatoes in one pot, eggs in the second pot, and ground coffee beans in the third pot.

He then let them sit and boil, without saying a word to his daughter. The daughter, moaned and impatiently waited, wondering what he was doing.

After twenty minutes he turned off the burners. He took the potatoes out of the pot and placed them in a bowl. He pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl.

He then ladled the coffee out and placed it in a cup. Turning to her he asked. “Daughter, what do you see?”

“Potatoes, eggs, and coffee,” she hastily replied.

“Look closer,” he said, “and touch the potatoes.” She did and noted that they were soft. He then asked her to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg. Finally, he asked her to sip the coffee. Its rich aroma brought a smile to her face.

“Father, what does this mean?” she asked.

He then explained that the potatoes, the eggs and coffee beans had each faced the same adversity– the boiling water.

However, each one reacted differently.

The potato went in strong, hard, and unrelenting, but in boiling water, it became soft and weak.

The egg was fragile, with the thin outer shell protecting its liquid interior until it was put in the boiling water. Then the inside of the egg became hard.

However, the ground coffee beans were unique. After they were exposed to the boiling water, they changed the water and created something new.

“Which are you,” he asked his daughter. “When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a potato, an egg, or a coffee bean? “

Moral:In life, things happen around us, things happen to us, but the only thing that truly matters is what happens within us.

Which one are you?

DOES IT MAKE SENSE?

Three friends had an accident in a car and became unconscious. A stranger got to the scene and wanted to call for help. He had no phone. *There were six mobile phones in the accident car but all had password on them*.
They all died as a result....!

A pregnant lady collapsed at home with her little daughter. The little girl had no idea of what was happening but saw her mother gasping for air. *She picked her mother's phone to call her Daddy but there was a password on the phone*.
She lost her life.....!

Whose fault?

*My advice is this.*
You are too precious than the information you are securing on your phone.

Only put password on your WhatsApp, Text messages, Facebook, files, etc and leave the call side free. You may one day save your life or the life of your loved ones.

*The password on your phone can be your death warrant.*

Think twice.

A message worth spreading.....creating awareness is real HUMANITY than sympathising or emphathising on the situation....